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The children are her priority, as they very well should be.
Nevertheless, I have a lot of questions and don’t have a lot of answers.
There could be a few potential reasons why I don’t have this desire.1) The 11 years of Prozac and 3.5 years of recovering from Prozac really threw me for a loop and delayed many things in my life, from both a professional and personal standpoint.
If one assumes that many people think about kids in their 30s, maybe I’ll get serious about having them in my mid-40s.
I will have caught up and be ready by then.2) There are several professional goals that I want to achieve before I even consider having kids.
And the fact that I work 12 hours per day during the week and numerous hours every single weekend does not exactly help matters.
I thought that even though I may not want kids of my own, it might be very rewarding to get to spend time with the kids of the woman that I am dating.* I haven’t met the kids yet and there is no timetable as to when I will. After I meditate, I am used to watching Mike and Mike in the morning on ESPN2 as I get ready for work. (For those who don’t know, I am a major sports junkie and this is one of my small pleasures.)– What will it be like to have an “instant-family”? I know that I am not their father (I will be their friend) and have no financial responsibility for them but the thought of having two small children in my life right away is a little overwhelming.– Even though I do have concerns, having two kids in my life could be incredibly enriching.In that post and in a follow-up one, I talked about my issue with her love of an occasional glass of wine and how it was really a “me problem”.